RANDY ELROD
Sensual | Curious | Communal | Free
Where Art Meets Authenticity
Fair warning: This isn’t a place for the prudish. Here we dive deep and uncensored into sensuality, curiosity, intimacy and freedom—and the courage it takes to live authentically. If you’re looking for safe, sanitized perspectives and art, you’ll find richer hunting grounds elsewhere. But if you’re hungry for real talk about what it means to be human—body, mind, soul, and spirit—pull up a chair.
My Latest Posts
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Why I Open My Laptop Instead of Reaching Over
CONTINUE READING: Why I Open My Laptop Instead of Reaching OverThe Porn Conversations #16 The question arrived in my inbox last week from a reader who’d been married thirty-one years. “Randy,” he wrote, “my wife and I haven’t had sex in four months. When I feel that itch, I just… open my laptop.” He didn’t ask me to fix it. He just wanted to say…
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Desire Doesn’t Disappear When You Deny It. It Ferments.
CONTINUE READING: Desire Doesn’t Disappear When You Deny It. It Ferments.I know people who say they have been happily married for forty, fifty, or sixty years. They’ll tell you they have never quarreled or longed for a different life—or person. Their eyes say otherwise. I grew up in a world that treated desire like a lit fuse—something to be snuffed before it reached the charge….
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The Ideal Reader for “The Mysteries of Barcelona”
CONTINUE READING: The Ideal Reader for “The Mysteries of Barcelona”A Profile in Five Portraits The book doesn’t have one perfect reader. It has five overlapping ones. The magic is that they all live at the intersection of Sensual · Curious · Communal · Free — my four essentials. The perfect reader has already begun to be liberated from something. They are in motion. Portrait One: The…