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The Porn Conversations #18 In an earlier post about nude beaches, I mentioned in passing that psychologists describe porn in levels — level one being the mildest, level five the most explicit. I gave it one sentence and moved on. My inbox did not move on. Enough of you wrote asking what that actually means…
Every generation has named its villain the Antichrist. Napoleon. Hitler. Mussolini. Henry Kissinger. Reagan. Obama. The list is long, and the accusers have always been sincere. I carry that history in mind as I write this. Accusations of this kind have a way of revealing more about the accuser than the accused — fear dressed…
Gina and I just returned from four nights in Amsterdam — our first visit — and the city defied nearly every expectation we arrived with. Coming from Barcelona, the visual shift was jarring. Amsterdam runs in browns, grays, and beiges. Monochromatic in a way Barcelona never is. Then the weather piled on: mostly cloudy, cold,…